A Spouse’s Perspective of Addiction

When people think of a love story, it usually doesn’t include addiction. Brian and Deena started their lives together as high school sweethearts and married 10 years later, only to have their first years of marriage overshadowed by Deena’s eating disorder.   

In this episode, Brian sheds light on his experience of trying to support his wife through recovery and suggestions for caregivers who need support.  

In this episode, you’ll also hear: 

• When treatment doesn’t work as it should    
• The upside-down world of addiction  
• Balancing success with struggle in recovery  

Must-listen moments:  

[00:4:08] I wanted to figure out how I can best support my wife as she's struggling because I see her struggling, but I don't know what to do. So, give me the tools to help. 

[00:14:17]  I just remember looking at my wife going, wondering, what are you doing? I don't understand. But that was the mantra: I don't understand, I really don't.  

[00:18:22] It's a lot easier when your loved one has the tools to succeed and understands their disease. 

 

Thank you for listening. Whether you’re suffering from an eating disorder or you’re a caring friend or family member, we’d love to hear from you via email at eatthatfat@gmail.com 

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